“IM PREGNANT” MESSAGES SCARING MEN IN CAMPUS

The route of abortion and fatherless babies in campus have always hit high number margins ever since. Most men are fond of denying to own up and taking up the responsibility of the pregnancies they disseminate in campus.

However, it’s the way ladies rely pregnancy messages to guys that is scaring to men and also intimidates them. There is need to realize that most of these who call themselves men in campus are still ‘daddy’s’ or ‘mama’s’, boy they haven’t yet imagined of Fathering a child especially while still in campus. Even if the guy is a masculine bouncer who scares away interrupters every time there is the famous campus night parties ‘kadunda’, it doesn’t mean that he is strong enough to also handle that scary message. Even that good guy who is always considered as a responsible guy can easily vanish or disown that lady depending on the way the lady rely to him that pregnancy message.

Most ladies upon realizing that she has missed that she has missed her periods or has started vomiting, the next option is to inform the guy whom identifiably she’s sure that he is the one responsible. The big question is, ‘how do you inform the man on such a matter? ’ . One thing ladies must realize is that the way you rely the message to the guy determines the response immediately. Some of the messages men fear most are: We need to talk, my periods have stopped, I need to see you urgently, there is something I need to tell you and we need to see the doctor.

When campus guys receive this, the ladies will likely receive harsh and very rude response from the guy. Some of the responses include; so what, are you trying to set me up and go find your child’s father. Most men don’t usually mean it but their reaction is mainly due to the immediate frustrations that suddenly dawns on their mind when they receive such messages.